( …and why that’s actually a good thing. ) You dream of an intimate wedding… but you also love a good party. You crave simplicity… but your imagination is overflowing. You’re tired of traditions… yet part of you finds them beautiful. Every couple faces this — and it’s perfectly normal . A wedding is a reflection of both of you, so contradictions are inevitable. The danger is trying to “make everything make sense.” Perfect consistency doesn’t exist — it often kills the spark.