Mindset & Emotions

(and why that’s actually good news) We often imagine the wedding as a finish line: After this, everything will be fine. But a wedding doesn’t fix fragile relationships, erase family tensions, or magically heal insecurities. And knowing that ahead of time  is incredibly healthy. A wedding isn’t a solution. It’s a magnifier. It amplifies what’s already there: – love, of course – but also fatigue – unspoken issues – unrealistic expectations And that’s not a failure. It’s freedom

( …and why that’s actually a good thing. ) You dream of an intimate wedding… but you also love a good party. You crave simplicity… but your imagination is overflowing. You’re tired of traditions… yet part of you finds them beautiful. Every couple faces this — and it’s perfectly normal . A wedding is a reflection of both of you, so contradictions are inevitable. The danger is trying to “make everything make sense.” Perfect consistency doesn’t exist — it often kills the spark.

( …and why your loved ones might not always get it. ) We often think a harmonious wedding means avoiding conflict. Yet some decisions are...

A secular ceremony? A fully vegetarian menu? An outfit that’s a little too “you”? None of these things are radical — and yet, somehow, they make us second-guess ourselves.